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I'd like to stress the "get her couseling" part as well, she could snap because of this.
Exactly! But don't push her into doing anything she doesn't want (yet). She's probably very suspicious on every male, so try to stay calm and avoid behavior that may frighten her.
A short search for the newsgroup alt.sexual.abuse.recovery revealed a few interesting things,
http://www.recovery-man.com/sexual-recovery.htm as well as
http://www.astraeasweb.net/politics/asarfaq.html. While this is not of immediate help to you or her, as it's all about sexual abuse and not rape, it still may give you a clue what to do and what not.